How To Flirt With Girls

If you realized that you can’t attract the really beautiful girls, you may need to change your strategy a bit. One thing that works in learning how to flirt with girls is to tease her a bit.

Why? Women like men who are interesting and different. When you meet a new girl, you only have a couple of minutes to prove yourself to be a great match for her. The most attractive women only want men that are good enough for her.

One way to get the girl interested is to tease them on their beauty. This will lower their defenses, and make them open up a bit to you.

Don’t be too Impressed

What you want to do: Show the girl that you aren’t impressed just by her beauty. You want her to think that you have a high standard for the girls you date.

When you tease her while you are flirting with her, you are making her feel like she is not good enough for you, and that she is going to have to step up her game a bit. This technique works best if you use it with the women who are really confident and super attractive.

The more attractive a woman is, the better this technique of teasing her will work, because she is confident and guys are attracted to her on a regular basis. If the girl you are after is ‘cute’, you may just want to use words and conversation to pick her up instead.

REMEMBER: When you tease a girl, you are winning power. She is going to want this power, and will try to get it back. Don’t make it too easy for her!

Tip #1: Use Funny Lines

- You remind me of that famous singer… Who was it… Kevin Spacey
- Your nose looks so cute when it twitches when you talk.
- The way you walk is the funniest thing I’ve seen… Do it again!

You are going to want to tell her that she is short, badly dressed, has a funny nose, or something. When you get a strong reaction, make sure that you use it again and again. Tease her about her clothes, hair, earrings, the way that she walks, how dorky she is or anything else.

Tip #2 Tease Her About Her Height

One thing that you can do that works great when you are flirting with a girl, is after a while, look over her head, like you are looking for her and ask “Where’s Mandy?”

Don’t stand too close to her or too far away when you do this, because usually, you should get a light hit, because you are implying that she is so short. If you are the same height than her (or shorter), you can stand on your tippy-toes and the result is even funnier, because you’re being sarcastic about your own height while teasing her about hers. What she thinks about this type of teasing:

She thinks that he is laughing about calling her short, and that he doesn’t just want her for her looks. This is a refreshing change for her, and realizes that you are different. She wants to see if this is really true, and is definitely interested in you.

Tip #3 Argue Over Something Stupid

Another type of flirting is a bit more difficult, because it is more like having a real conversation with a girl. Here’s how to flirt with girls:

Ask the girl a question, it can be anything. For example, where did she get her t-shirt, how her day was, what she is doing later tonight or what she has in her handbag?

The idea of this is to disagree about something that she says. When you do this, you are going to create a bit of sexual tension.

You should disagree on the way that she looks.
You should disagree on her clothes, telling her that they aren’t cool.
You should disagree on something else that she says.

If you are in a bar, one way to tease an attractive girl is to tell her that she’s too drunk, even if she isn’t drunk at all. Or you can tell her that she is insecure like many men, and has to use alcohol to help her get lucky; and this method is not going to work for you.

There is a big difference from a woman pretending to be upset and being upset. If she has a half-smile on her face or if she gives you those playful hits, she really does like it.

You should be looking at what she does, not what she says. When she starts to laugh and act normal, you know that you’ve been talking too long, so stop. If you’ve always wondered how to flirt with girls, you probably didn’t realize that teasing them is the way to do it well.