Tip To Getting Laid

There is no such thing as one tip to getting laid. The secret for success with the women is all in your personality.

There are two different extremes to men’s personalities. You need to find a good balance. Women are attracted to these men who have the perfect combination of traits.

Nice guys display feminine personality traits.

Best Qualities: nice, friendly, romantic, spontaneous
Worst Qualities: low self confidence, can be predictable and clingy, submissive and too nice

The bad boy or jerk shows these personality traits.

Best Qualities: confidence, mystery, challenge, strength, unpredictability and natural leadership
Worst Qualities: sometimes these guys are socially unaccepted, careless, insecure, abusive and irrational.

If you look at these qualities that show both sides of men, the nice guys and the bad boys, you should really see that being the too sweet, clingy guy won’t attract women, because they will see you as being too feminine. If you are too much like them, they won’t be attracted to you, because they are so similar to you.

The bad boy that possesses only masculine qualities to his personality gives off a lot of negative energy can keep women around because they are so strong. You can finally answer the question on why do the nicest guys always finish last while the jerk has the beautiful woman. The nice guy probably has experienced the following scenario at some point:

The nice guy meets a woman, and becomes really close friends to her. She listens as this beautiful girl tells are about how big of a jerk her boyfriend is, and how she can’t dump him. Soon, the guy starts to feel deeper feelings for this girl, and thinks that she should break up with the jerk and date him.

Finally, the woman gets sick of having her heart broken and breaks up with the jerk. The nice guy gathers up every ounce of confidence and tells her his true feelings.

The beautiful girl isn’t at all attracted to him, because he hasn’t shown any masculine personality traits, and is just a boring nice guy. She lets him down easily by saying that she doesn’t want to ruin the friendship to have a relationship.

If you are a guy that shows only feminine personality traits, women won’t find you attractive. Showing only masculine traits are also not that successful, because eventually the woman will get sick of the poor treatment. The tip to getting laid is to have a balanced personality.

Are you a Real Man?

The real man is not overly masculine or feminine. To be what women are attracted to and call a gentleman, you need to have both masculine and feminine personality traits.

The Best Masculine Traits: confidence, mystery, challenge, strength, unpredictable and a good leader

The Best Feminine Traits: sweet, romantic, caring, giving, spontaneous

The real man will make it a challenge for women by making her earn his respect, but at the same time open the door for them. He is confident and romantic at the same time. Real men have a great balance of masculine and feminine traits, and this personality often makes them very attractive to women.

Beautiful women like these men, because they are consciously and unconsciously attracted to them. They want a caring guy, but also one who has confidence and will lead the relationship. You probably have realized that there is no one tip to getting laid. What is important to realize that having both masculine and feminine personality traits will work in attracting great women.